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Write and Retreat: Bone Piles in Silver City, NM

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Silver City Sunset

Silver City Sunset

Stories nature our connection to place and to each other. They show us where we’ve been and where we can go. they remind us of how to be human, how to live alongside the other lives that animate this planet…No one story can give us the whole picture. We need every voice to speak its version of truth from silence. We need every story to guide our lives.

~ Susan J. Tweit, Walking Nature Home: A Life’s Journey

This is the sunset that greeted me as my car eased down into the valley after a four-hour drive from Santa Fe to Silver City, New Mexico for a weekend Write & Retreat. Now, what is one supposed to with that—other than to sink deeply into writing and connecting with each other and ideas yet to be discovered.

That’s just what we did.

Write & Retreat Tribe

Write & Retreat Tribe: Melanie Budd, Pam Keyes, Cherry Jamison, Judy Grout, Susan Tweit, Bonnie Hobbs, Linda Jacobs, Dawn Wink, Cindy DuBois, Will Barnes

Write & Retreat creator, Susan J. Tweit, our group of fearless writers, and I spent a lot of time in the “bone piles” of each of our individual stories in Silver City. “Ranchers walk up to most bones,” writes Teresa Jordan in Riding the White Horse Home. “They look physical danger right in the eye and don’t blink. But there are other bones that scare them.”

Silver City charm

Silver City Charm

That’s where we went in our writing—through physical mapping and writing, creating word rings, passages of other writers read aloud to inspire, and ever deepening writing.

We also wandered the streets of the incredibly charming Silver City, walked the creek, and talked about how the land can inspire and tell its own story, explored the incredible art shops, drank coffee and talked about writing and life, drank wine and talked about writing and life, and enjoyed meals together around conversation and friendship. 

We each returned from our weekend together transformed on some way. Our community share their experiences:

Along the Creek

Along the creek. ©Daniel Grout

“First, trust. We talk so often as writers about the ways in which writing can transform our lives, and I know I totally depend on my writing practice each day, just to stay sane. But it isn’t just the daily practice of crafting and making. It’s like the answers are actually in there! There is something really magic about this. In that strange vortex of inspiration and creation, if we can follow it, and trust our imagination and instinct, the pathway will become clear, the words tell us what to do. I think my poems are telling me where to go, and how. So the real work is about listening and about trust. I am not sure how this came to me, but something about all of you did it! And it makes me very happy.” ~ Will Barnes

Together Eating Silver

Community and Conversation ©Daniel Grout

“I was the only person in the retreat who has not had something published but I was treated as a colleague and honored as a writer. This experience solidified my determination to quite wishing I was a writer to identifying loud and proud, I AM A WRITER! I know that by this time next year, I’ll be able to look back and say my life changed for the better that weekend.” ~Cindy DuBois

“Thank you for providing such a safe, supportive, and thought-provoking atmosphere at the retreat. The group energy and sense of kinship was very encouraging. The experience inspired me and broadened my vision of what writing can be.” ~Melanie Budd

Cherry Bone pile

Word Ring © Cherry Jamison

“Among the things that I particularly value about the word and concept of a “bone pile” is that it is so much more elegant than saying that we must each face and go through our own (and our family) “shit” to get to truth, essence or even grace at times. I also appreciate that there is always a choice about whether or not we share what we find in the bone bile. Sometimes facing it is enough, and sometimes it isn’t. I think that we all probably are looking for freedom in our writing and in our lives.” ~Cherry Jamison

~ “Yes, this group was phenomenal. We seemed to meld into such a solid, self-confident, intelligent, supportive, creative bunch. I suspect it had something to do with the leaders teaching us and the lovely environment and perhaps the writing gods zinging us with positive energy. I am honored to be considered a part of this enclave and rejoice that we seem to express a mutual desire for the support to continue.” ~Judy Grout

“Thank you for the wonderful and stimulating retreat. You have a way of bringing out depths of thought which one didn’t know were there!” ~Linda Jacobs

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Hatch, NM

For myself, ideas swirled through my mind on the return drive home through the wonderful town of Hatch, ristras of strung chile lining every shop and street, and the long stretches of desert of New Mexico. I returned with a chapter for LOVE STONES that it would not have been complete without and a focus on “re-imagining” areas of life.

Something about our weekend shifted something deep within me and this past weekend found me home—not traveling or teaching or attending any sporting events for kids for the first time in weeks and weeks. I sank into the rhythms of the home, “the sacredness of puttering” or something like that is how Anne Lamott describes this. I checked out of anything online and added another laying of tending to our new home. Inspired by my own clustering and our conversations, I sank into Being Home. I lined linen closet shelves, cleaned bathroom cabinets, and went on long morning runs. I brought order to some of those dark, clogged corners that tend to take us so much emotional energy. I’ve learned to trust that ebb-and-flow of energy and writing and went with it. Oh, and I read and took naps on both days! Heaven.

Beauty of stained glass, stained sky

I returned transformed. That transformation has strengthened my writing and life rhythms these past few weeks in infinitely healthier ways.  

One of those rhythms includes a return to running, something that I have not made time for in my life for the past several months due to life and work commitments. Every morning, with a mutual text from a member of our Write & Retreat tribe, she heads out the door in Tucson for her walk and I head out the door in Santa Fe for my run. The “re-imagining” of other areas of life continues. My journal fills with clusters and maps.

The weekend inspired Susan and I to reserve the weekend of February 17-20, 2017 at The Murray Hotel for the Second Annual Silver City Write & Retreat. 

Sometimes one needs to get away to find what deserves discovery.

Early morning run with swirling sunrise and moon.

Early morning run with swirling sunrise and moon.

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Author: Dawn Wink

Dawn Wink is a writer and educator whose work explores the beauty and tensions of language, culture, and place.

16 thoughts on “Write and Retreat: Bone Piles in Silver City, NM

  1. Such a joy to meet you and Susan at the SCN conference. Please put me on the list when sign ups start for the 2017 conference in Silver City. Thank you.

    • Laurie, wonderful to connect with you in Austin! Yes, will certainly include you for our next Write & Retreat in Silver City. I’m thrilled that you’re joining us! Dawn

  2. When the one woman stated that she felt like she was in a safe environment as an unpublished author I felt her honesty. After being around you and Susan through Women Writing the West, I trust her statement and agree. You two are so encouraging. Thank you for putting on your retreats and I look forward to seeing you in Santa Fe. I can’t wait for your workshop!

    • Hey dear Carmen, oh, thanks so very much for what you express here. This means so much to both Susan and me, as this is our hope and intention. Sending big hugs, until can hug you in person here in Santa Fe!!

  3. You capture the flavor of the Write Retreat so beautifully. I knew I had my own “pile of bones” but didn’t know what to call it. Somehow tagging an elusive, pervasive ghost hovering on my shoulder seems to be the first step in conquering the evasive villains in my writing.

    • Dear Judy, “Somehow tagging an elusive, pervasive ghost hovering on my shoulder seems to be the first step in conquering the evasive villains in my writing.” How beautifully and wisely you convey this. I’ve read over and over. Thanks so very much for this. What a gift to share our Write and Retreat together. Here’s to diving into our piles of bones together! Big hugs, Dawn

  4. Thanks for the retreat summary and wonderful photos, Dawn! Inspiring to read. 🙂

  5. Thanks for this, Dawn! I would love to attend such a retreat with all of you one of these days. Love Peggy

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  6. There’s a big pile of food for thought in today’s Dew Drops. The first thing that grabbed me was writing must be pure art and little if no science. What a time it must have been to be getting the writing recharge in Silver City! The, “the sacredness of puttering”, oh my, how true that is, I cannot think of a better therapy for a mind tired from always having to be somewhere or doing something. I can see a sacredness in your morning writing and runs too, a lot of it. It’s so good to hear from you Dawn, thanks again for Dew Drops!

    • Dan, so wonderful to hear from you! The last time Susan and I gave a workshop, there we all were together. Different state, same spirit. And there is something about that time to tend to the home nest, isn’t there? Have you been to Silver City? You would love the Gila Wilderness. Oh, those morning runs. It’s amazing how the muscle memory picks up and soon it feels as if I’d never stopped running. So lovely to hear from you and sending hugs! Dawn

  7. That Stained glass is so unusual and really beautiful ~ Thanks for your newsletter ~

    • Baji, isn’t that stained glass beautiful? I love, as well. It hangs above my writing desk. Sending good energy your way and thank you so much for taking the time to connect!

  8. Beautiful, Dawn! It’s that transformation, of our writing and our lives, that I aim for with each Write & Retreat workshop. Having the gift of you teaching with me this time deepened the shift for all of us. I treasure the gifts you brought, the bone piles we braved together, the maps we drew to explore our stories, and the word rings that will guide us as we continue to grow our writing. Bravo to the transformative power of writing and running and life!

    • Susan! Thank you so very much for inviting me to be a part of this Write & Retreat. What an intense and special time, the ripples of which continue… What a legacy you’ve created!

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